Tuesday, July 21, 2009

African Cichlids Fish

African Cichlids Fish are beautiful tropical freshwater fish that are very popular to fish enthusiast. They tend to be a fairly aggressive fish and do not do well with some types of fish from other regions. Most of the African Cichlids found in fish tanks today come from one of three rift lakes in Africa. Lake Malawi, Lake Tanganyika, and Lake Victoria are the not the only lakes with cichlids, but these three tend to be the most popular.
My first apartment had six fish tanks with two of them holding fish from these lakes. I did not realize at the time that I was mixing fish from different regions of the world and I lost a number of fish to the aggressive African Cichlids. Some of the more popular varieties of fish from these lakes are the Oscar's an Jack Dempseys. My wife worked in a pet store at the time and knew of a woman who had an Oscar jump right out of the tank and bite her on the nose. Apparently she thought it was cute to lean over the tank holding feeder fish and watch the Oscar jump in the air. I bet she never did that again.
Over the years we sold off the tanks one by one until now we have no more fish tanks. I've been thinking of getting back into it again and started researching African Cichlids.

Here are some links for African Cichlids:
African Cichlids Fish
African Cichlids Description
African Cichlids Aquarium
Breeding African Cichlids

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Thursday, July 9, 2009

Better Sex For Christian Couples

After 21 years of marriage to the same woman I definitely realize the need to keep things fresh and exciting! I'm talking about our, shhh, sex life, of course. It is true that any venture in life will become stale and boring if you do the same thing over and over again. That also applies to intimacy within a marriage. The good news is that if you both love each other and are willing to work on your intimate relationship then you can keep the spark fully alive in the bedroom for years to come. I don't know what the next twenty will bring, but the last twenty-one have been amazing and I look forward to every moment we have together.

Searching for new ideas to bring into the bedroom can seem like a journey into the dark world of pornography. In truth most information available is not made for a monogamous christian married couple, but instead is made for the masses of non-married people. It can be very difficult to find specific and explicit information on improving sexual intimacy for Christians that is also tasteful and not pornographic.

God made man and woman to enjoy the pleasures of each other sexually. The only clear restrictions in the Bible placed on sexual relationships are that it is monogamous, one man and one woman, and only within a marriage. Other than that he has given us free reign to explore each others bodies! Woo-Hoo!! I like that part!

If you are searching for that little extra zing or are completely frustrated with your sex life and want more, than you need to read Robert Irwins book,
Sexual Skills for the Christian Husband. Oh, he has a book for women also written by his wife, Susan.


Better Sex For Christian Couples